A parent's primary job is to provide a child with the tools to become a productive part of society. To teach them right from wrong and to have respect for others and the law (not always the same thing). That they should respect their elders, veterans and their country (not necessarily their government). To support them in their times of uncertainty and let them know that they will always be there, when the child is ready to talk, to come back for a refresher course in any of the above.
Feel free to chime in, tell me I'm wrong; that I am right; that I've taken too many prescription drugs for the pain and I should be sleeping.
Birds: Keep your neighbors happy, always fly your birds before you feed them. Feed them before you call them in, so they aren't out sitting on the neighbor's new, freshly washed SUV. If said SUV becomes a target for aerial bombardment, offer to wash the vehicle.Honey: The grapes on the vine are almost ready to juice...anyone want to give me an early Christmas gift, I need a new 5 gallon Carboy.
I agree with what you have said. And want to add that the love of a parent is unconditional. But that doesn't mean the parents has to accept abuse or bad behavior.
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ReplyDeleteOf course I agree. My number one is they know who they are in Christ. Secondly, family. The love of the family is what you have. No matter who does what, forgive them, time and again, and all will work out just fine; even if it takes a while. No parent is perfect therefore I don't expect my children to be. When I am wrong, I admit it, ask for forgiveness, give them my biggest hug and wet kiss, and move on. If family does you wrong, love them anyway. Love conquers all.
ReplyDeleteDaniel knows my door is always open. I know he'll talk to me when he is ready. I acknowledge his need but don't "nag" him about it. I try to be tender-hearted.
Heather...well...I love her too. She's a great girl and will continue to be a work of art. =D
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ReplyDeleteThanks for you input, things get a little different when they are older and out of the house with kids of their own.
You do good as a single mom, keep it up
I'm thinking parts one and two are the same step, but you're right on. Too many people try to be their child's friend instead of parent, friendship comes later, respect comes first.
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